Aurora

People should not have to fear for their lives when going to work, high school, college, on a plane ride, or the freaking movies. It's just not fair, and nobody deserves that. We should be able to enjoy life without constant fear, and the people who aren't enough in their right minds to know that, need to be given attention and care.

To me, a movie theater (any, really) is one of my top sanctuaries. It is a place where I can go to be alone and yet so wholly engaged with other people. It's sacred and I have many rituals that go along with seeing movies (enough that others can get a fair bit annoyed) and thinking about my safety is hardly one of them. Having to even consider that is blasphemous. This whole event frustrates, saddens, angers, and completely scares me. That we live in a world where this has happened on multiple horrific occasions is so many synonyms of scary-bizzarro that I don't know what to do with myself.

I don't know what causes random acts of violence like this. I'm not trying to understand this, because it won't be an easy matter of figuring out a motive, if a motive is ever really enough. I just know that all the way across the country, I can feel the tremors. To get past it, because I will get past it, I've gone to the movies... more specifically, The Dark Knight Rises, twice since I heard about the shooting. I figure if I dive in, I'll stop checking the exits every five minutes eventually.

I can only imagine the horror of those directly affected by this and I would just like to extend my deepest sympathies. My heart is broken for all of you, but I'm a firm believer that broken hearts can mend with time.

Nora

 “I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” — Billy Crystal to Meg Ryan in “When Harry Met Sally”

This is one of my favorite movies as are many of her other works. Nora Ephron brought so much intelligence about human nature to everything she did and I'm so sad to hear of her passing. All I can do is watch one of her movies and read some of her writing, in thanks to all that she gave. I hope there are people who can step up to the plate and fill the void left by her passing... who knows, maybe you'll be one of them (yes, I'm talking you YOU, (no, not you Robert De Niro) nonexistent reader of my blog).

I lost my favorite scarf.

This is old news, but it was quite devastating. My favorite scarf was a GIANT infinity scarf, purple and white striped, courtesy of American Apparel. I was just going through pictures from a few months ago and was suddenly hit with that horrid pang of realization that I no longer have that scarf. I try to keep it out of my head! I lost it after seeing Newsies in New York. I guess I was so overcome with the thrill and depression of seeing such spectacular dancing that I just forgot my scarf under my seat! Or it was so damn tight in that balcony that I could hardly get out of my seat much less remember to look under it. And seriously.... it was THAT scarf. The one that makes you feel a little more awesome, and pulls every outfit in just the right direction. Definitely one of my favorite things in my closet. THEREFORE, I urge my, well approximately zero readers, to go get one... or five.

Louboutin Illusions

So I definitely enjoy the new neon trend (though I haven't invested much in it, because, well, how long is neon really going to last, as much as I like it?), and recently Louboutin's Unbout Illusion Pump has gone to the top of my list of favorite neon pieces. (A list which includes chiffon pleated skirts and satchels). These are amazing. I've never been one for any type of plastic shoe - those jelly shoes, crocs, they all gross me out. These, on the other hand, are gorgeous and perfectly create their intended illusion. Seen on the likes of Emma Stone and Beyoncé, these arresting pumps are making a splash and completely stealing the show! If only, if only. These certainly could turn into a DIY project. If you find a pair of clear or even nude patent pumps, you could tape up everything but the toe and heel and then follow basic protocol for painting shoes. I've never done it myself, but the prospect of having shoes like these Louboutin's is tempting like nothing else!

Just indulge me for a minute...

The new window displays for Lanvin's Paris, rue du Faubourg St. Honoré store are so stunning, that when I was perusing Facebook, ignoring mostly everything, I stopped dead in my tracks! They're titled "Birds of Paradise" and boy are they! The garments (and purses and shoes!) are all flocked by the biggest, most beautiful feathers I've ever seen. What I love, is that while some are in the shape of actual wings, others are a bit more abstract, wrapping around the garments or acting as bright shoulder adornments. If this is what feather boas involve, count me in! Also, besides being an absolutely perfect and brilliant window display, the garments themselves and the way they're styled are gorgeous.
**Photos from Lanvin's Facebook page

A Day in the Park

Song of the moment: Who Knows Who Cares by The Local Natives

Summer Essentials: Style Edition

We’ve all got those essential pieces in our wardrobe and accessories that get us through the summer. Here are my top 25 that I just can’t live without!

1. Ray-Ban Wayfarers

They’re an investment, sure, but I’ve never loved a pair of sunglasses more. In the perpetually cool, classic silhouette, these are a pair of sunglasses that will truly never let you down. If you want to look like the Blues Brothers, go for the black pair. For a slightly beachier, laidback, but versatile look, I prefer the tortoiseshell pair.

2. Floppy Sun Hat

I’ve found that American Eagle has cute, cheap sun hats with beautiful, huge brims to keep you cool and sheltered from the blistering summer sun. They’re always glamorous and fabulous, and will keep you looking like a movie star, at the beach or running errands around town.

3. High-Waisted Floral Skirt

A high-waisted floral skirt, in my opinion, can get you anywhere! Easy, breezy, and it goes with almost everything! To have the most fun with these, pair with other patterns and colors. I love to pair mine with bandeaus, striped tees, and band tees. It’s an easy way to try out pattern mixing if you haven't tried much before, and it’s also a great way to subtly push some boundaries. Look for fun embellishments like buttons, high-low hems or chiffon pleated versions! The possibilities are endless!

4. Sleeveless Tie-Neck Blouse

Best in an airy chiffon, there is nothing easier than slipping this on with cute shorts (whether those are high-waisted or denim cutoffs) or light summer trousers. It’s also a great top because it doesn’t require too much jewelry – the bow serves as a necklace. Nobody wants to fuss with layers and overwrought outfits in the summer, which makes tops like these perfect! Look for contrasting colors and prints or pretty nudes and pastels.

5. Peplum Top

Peplums are a gift from God. The right peplum tops are flattering to just about everyone, nipping in at that perfect spot and flowing out for that great retro vibe. A peplum top is a great day to night piece in the right fabric and colors. For some extra retro/Zooey Deschanel fun, go with polka dots, but keep in mind that a peplum works with anything: florals, stripes, solids, colorblocking. Just throw it over some jeans and you automatically look pretty and put together, without looking like you’re trying too hard.

6. Capris

Okay, now don’t roll your eyes. I DO NOT mean ugly, unflattering, mid-calf, tacky jeans. I mean Audrey Hepburn. I mean strolling around in Europe. I mean perfectly short, just right above the ankle, chic. These are pants to buy in every color and to try out in any patterns too. They couldn’t be more easy, or classic. Vintage, darling. Updated, however, in the season’s hottest colors, neons that really make this style pop.

7. Chambray Shirt

This is THE shirt that defines summer bliss for me. Light, easy, goes with everything and makes it infinitely cooler. Any wash works. For some extra edge, try a dip-dyed version, or an acid washed version. If you want one to wear for years though, go with the classic.

8. Fit and Flare Dress

A universally flattering silhouette, this is my go-to when I want to look and feel like Reese Witherspoon’s best friend in Pleasantville, or like I could conquer the world. This is another great pick because it works in a myriad of ways. Wear it in any color (neon to nude!) or print (floral, polka dots, stripes) with oxfords or heels. This dress will work with just about everything!

9. TOMS

Toms are wonderful. They look cute with pants, shorts, and dresses, and they fit really small feet! They’re great walking shoes (they brought me all around Italy and have made more than a few trips around New York City), but they’re not ugly by any means! These are perfect for summer concerts, trips, and just running around town. Added bonus: cute colors, patterns, and embellishments.

10. Converse

All I really need to get through life is a pair of black high-top Chucks.

11. Platform Sandals/Wedges

For dressing up in the summer, keep it fun with some platform sandals or cute bright wedges. Floral and other patterned wedges also brighten up every wardrobe! They can dress up everything without keeping your style held down with stuffiness.

12. White Eyelet/Lace Top

Right out of The Virgin Suicides, a great white top can complete any summer wardrobe. In a sea of fringe, tiny bandeaus, and neon, you’ll look fresh and cool by going with a simple white top and not trying too hard! Tunic versions are great too.

13. Straw Fedora

The perfect topper if you feel out of place in a wide brimmed sun hat, a straw fedora just screams “laidback cool,” and it’ll never let you down. Nobody will notice if you’ve got a sunburn or if your acne’s flaring up on a certain day because all they’ll see is a cool cat taking it easy. A fedora never let Sinatra down, and in the summer, a straw fedora will always treat you nice.

14. Canvas Backpack

Who needs a Northface or a generic branded tote when you’re carrying a quirky canvas backpack? They’re equally convenient as a normal backpack and can carry as much, but they’re 20X more stylish and the opportunities to individuate yourself carrying one are much more readily available. I love these in different prints, whether they’re tribal or floral.

15. Neon Satchel

These are the perfect satchels, and completely worth investing in. For summer, instead of a classic red or brown, go for neon! It instantly brightens any outfit and draws all kinds of good attention! Bonus: multiple sizes and you can get yours monogrammed! Even better, Zooey Deschanel’s a fan.

16. SHORTS!

A girl can’t go through summer without some killer shorts. My top 3:

A) Denim Cutoffs

There are a million different ways to wear denim cutoffs, whether you go short-short or boyfriend, dark wash or distressed. Their versatility and instant statement make them perfect for every summer wardrobe, and they’re the reason they are a staple every single season.

B) Floral Shorts

If you’re bored with denim cutoffs (which would be silly, but I’d understand not wanting to wear them every day), try a floral pair. They’re sweet and sassy, and give a cute oomph to every outfit.

C) Lace Shorts

In any and every color, these work, and make an outfit a little sweeter. I like mine high-waisted (as I like most of my shorts… and skirts… and pants, for that matter), but I like pairing them with combat boots for a little edge – an outfit can sometimes only take so much sugar, after all.

17. Shift Dress

In the long heat of the summer, a cool cotton shift is simple and fresh. There’s nothing easier than this, and all you need for a great outfit are a few accessories. Just throw on some killer sandals, an amazing hat, and voilá! Stunner!

18. Polka Dot Dress

An attention getter without even trying, polka dots will stop anyone and everyone in their tracks. Whimsical and sassy, they can take on any traits you’d like them to, and are easily toughened up if you feel a bit too sweet to get anything done! Marc Jacobs and Lucille Ball alike approve of polka dots, so how could anyone possibly resist?

19. Pleated Skirt

A pleated skirt is floaty and romantic without getting too carried away. In any color, nude and neon included, it can compliment any other elements of an outfit perfectly. In a print, it can easily  steal all of the attention. It’s a wonderful alternative to the boring and overdone bodycon skirts, and it works in more than one length. A pleated skirt is a beautiful and fresh item to incorporate into a wardrobe.

20. Slip Dress

Delightfully 70s/90s, a slip dress adds some much-needed edge to a wardrobe in a very subtle way. It’s a bit racy, without going over the top in a bad way. Emulating only the best (Penny Lane, the Lisbon sisters, and Elizabeth Taylor), you’re sure to be a rock star by layering a slip under a long, slouchy cardigan with a belt and some combat boots.

21. Combat Boots

Every girl needs a pair of combat boots, more specifically, a pair of Dr. Martens – even better, FLORAL (Liberty London) DR. MARTENS! They became a classic themselves, though a rather unlikely classic. They were never meant to make a fashion statement, but were eventually adopted in such a bold one that they’ve continued to make waves today. The Liberty London Docs are gorgeous, and the perfect balance between tough/utilitarian and sweet/girly.

22. High-Low Skirt

These skirts are another great way to add interest to an outfit. They work beautifully in various prints, but I truly love them in solids. The silhouette is such that it doesn’t really need to be printed too. There is enough interest with the silhouette alone. Either way, though, they are a great addition to a wardrobe.

23. Infinity Scarf

Before I lost this scarf in New York, I wore the purple striped version everywhere. It’s very nice jersey and it’s HUGE. It can be made into a skirt or a dress if you wish, but I typically wore it as a scarf or shawl. It’s the perfect remedy to Air Conditioning chills!

24. Oxfords

Oxfords could get me through the summer and I’d be happy. There are so many beautiful pairs out there. Some have lace, some are metallic, others are nude, some are neon! With all of the options, they easily go with a multitude of outfits.

25. Camera

Naturally, you’ll need something to capture all of your amazing summer moments! I use a Nikon D5100, a DSLR, but in the past I’ve loved Canon Powershots. Anything that captures memories works.

When in doubt, go for retro fun, or just try to be Penny Lane.

Song of the Moment: Rising by Son Lux